Affording dental care for three kids in New Jersey: I am getting to the point of wanting to know how the heck am I going to continue paying for dental care for three kids and my wife.   I swear every time just one of us goes to the dentist we can not get out of there for under $175

When you add the cost times five it gets to be a joke.  I do not have dental benefits though my employer so no help coming from that end.  Both my wife and I only go to the dentist once a year to try and cut our cost but still with three kids going to the dentist two to three time a year just for basic dental care it is starting to over price us.  Advise please